Did he tell you bad news? And the gospel? What is different or there?
Good news: something or knowledge makes us happy, happy, safe, secure and safe.
So there seems to be a difference between good news and bad news. Keep reading.
Have you ever heard bad news, but in the end things turned out better or better than you expected? Have you recently received any good news that you think is untrue?
From my own experience, I can tell you that I have seen all four people …
Bad news is bad news.
Good news, I thought it was a good thing, but it turned out to be bad.
Bad news, I think it was wrong and ultimately good.
But confusing? I know that over time, you often get confused about the difference between these two contradictory messages. But I learned that sometimes bad news for one person can be good news for another, and later take the good news for someone as bad news.
Confused? Let me tell you.
In the end, it is only the story and what makes it so bad, positive or neutral is not the story itself, but how it is viewed, judged, discussed or answered.
How can one take bad news as good news you can ask for? Or, how can one take the gospel as bad news?
In short, each of us has a unique history, experience, beliefs, and values, so none of us look at the same situation or situation in the same way.
Anxious, unhappy, hopeless or impatient, we will have a bad time when someone else realizes that there is something we can control and that there are things we cannot control. , so why should you be upset about what you can do? Do not use it or if you can handle it and take care of it.
In the end, everything that happens, happens and what we do is to define everything based on our expectations, our goals, our needs or our thoughts, and all of these things are unique to each person n ‘to us.
Let me give you some personal examples. But if you are thinking about the details even if you do not have the same situation, if you are thinking about it, I will be able to tell.
Prior to attending conferences and seminars, I was the national market manager for international conferences. The story is long, but the short part is that I had a problem with my boss, his boss, and he fired me. Bad news, huh? That was the only thing I wanted to decide and it was time to start a project that took more than 40 years and gave me the opportunity to see the world (25 countries so far) and work with some clients and a large audience. So, finally, this bad news is good news.
This is fasting.
Years ago, I showed my plan and said yes, good news, right? (No trial here, please). Later, after giving my best over 15 years, I decided it was time to finish it and why? Well, without a shocking explanation, the relationship gradually eroded my self-esteem, confidence, and optimism, and I decided I had no appreciation for who I would be in this relationship. We parted peacefully. The good news is that in time you will regain what you lost, both spiritually and spiritually.
We all have our stories and we can all make a list of the good news and bad news we received, but in the end all the stories are true.
At some point in my business, I share this simple idea: Stop asking your employees about good news or bad news, ask them about the story, and decide what it is. Because your definition may be different from yours.